{"id":113,"date":"2014-10-09T11:00:27","date_gmt":"2014-10-09T09:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/?p=113"},"modified":"2014-10-09T11:00:27","modified_gmt":"2014-10-09T09:00:27","slug":"moje-prvorade-poslanie-byt-matkou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/moje-prvorade-poslanie-byt-matkou\/","title":{"rendered":"Moje prvorad\u00e9 poslanie? By\u0165 matkou!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Simonetta Zalov\u00e1<\/p>\n<p>foto Jozef Barinka<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Patr\u00ed ku\u00a0st\u00e1liciam spravodajsk\u00e9ho t\u00edmu telev\u00edzie JOJ. Tento rok je to presne desa\u0165 rokov, odkedy sa Adriana Kmotr\u00edkov\u00e1 stala moder\u00e1torkou hlavnej spravodajskej rel\u00e1cie. Ke\u010f za\u010d\u00ednala v\u00a0TV JOJ, jej deti boli e\u0161te celkom mal\u00e9, dnes m\u00e1 dc\u00e9ra Linda 13 a\u00a0syn Tom\u00e1\u0161 14 rokov. Hoci sa narodila v\u00a0znamen\u00ed Leva, sama hovor\u00ed, \u017ee \u010do sa s\u00fakromia t\u00fdka, c\u00edti sa by\u0165 sk\u00f4r rodinne zalo\u017een\u00fdm Rakom.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/v318_BH1A7664.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-192\" src=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/v318_BH1A7664-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"v318_BH1A7664\" width=\"199\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/v318_BH1A7664-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/v318_BH1A7664-682x1024.jpg 682w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 199px) 100vw, 199px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ak\u00fd k\u00fat Ko\u0161\u00edc, kde ste vyrastali, v\u00e1m prir\u00e1stol najviac k\u00a0srdcu? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>S\u00a0Ko\u0161icami sa mi sp\u00e1jaj\u00fa spomienky na cel\u00e9 detstvo. Najviac asi k\u00a0s\u00eddlisku Juh a\u00a0k\u00a0centru mesta, ktor\u00e9 je ve\u013emi pekn\u00e9, st\u00e1le tam b\u00fdva moja rodina. Prebr\u00e1zdila som tie miesta na bicykli s\u00a0kamar\u00e1tkami kr\u00ed\u017eom-kr\u00e1\u017eom a\u00a0bolo to super! Ale asi najkraj\u0161ie z\u00e1kutia s\u00fa v\u00a0Sokoli pri Ko\u0161iciach, kde som tr\u00e1vievala pr\u00e1zdniny u\u00a0babky.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mal by sa \u010dlovek vo svojom \u017eivote u\u010di\u0165 milova\u0165, alebo si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee s\u00a0t\u00fdmto citom sa rod\u00edme a\u00a0prich\u00e1dza akosi samozrejme s\u00e1m od seba?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee moj\u00edm prvorad\u00fdm poslan\u00edm v\u017edy bolo by\u0165 matkou. V\u00a0detstve som sa v\u017edy hr\u00e1vala s\u00a0ko\u010diarikom pln\u00fdm b\u00e1bik &#8211; to boli moje deti. Potom pri\u0161la puberta a\u00a0s \u0148ou \u00faplne odli\u0161n\u00e9 z\u00e1ujmy, ale napokon som sa predsa len vr\u00e1tila ku ko\u010diariku&#8230; (smiech). Z\u00a0toho usudzujem, \u017ee l\u00e1sku k\u00a0de\u0165om m\u00e1m ur\u010dite vroden\u00fa.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Psychol\u00f3govia tvrdia, \u017ee \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd sa hrd\u00ed zdravou identitou, ovl\u00e1da umenie vybra\u0165 si z\u00a0viacer\u00fdch mo\u017enost\u00ed. Je to aj v\u00e1\u0161 pr\u00edpad? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou m\u00e1vam vo veciach \u00faplne jasno, ale ak stretnem silnej\u0161iu osobnos\u0165, ako som ja, nech\u00e1m sa ovplyvni\u0165. Ku\u00a0zdravej identite v\u0161ak \u010dlovek m\u00f4\u017ee dospie\u0165 aj vekom a\u00a0sk\u00fasenos\u0165ami.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eVa\u0161e deti nie s\u00fa va\u0161imi de\u0165mi. S\u00fa synmi a\u00a0dc\u00e9rami \u017divota, t\u00fa\u017eiaceho po sebe samom. Prich\u00e1dzaj\u00fa cez v\u00e1s, ale nie od v\u00e1s. A\u00a0aj ke\u010f s\u00fa s\u00a0vami, predsa v\u00e1m nepatria.\u201c Tento cit\u00e1t od Khalila Gibrana n\u00e1s m\u00e1 presved\u010di\u0165, \u017ee nie sme zodpovedn\u00ed za osud svojich det\u00ed, aspo\u0148 nie v\u00a0tom absol\u00fatnom slova zmysle. Tak ako si to mysl\u00edme o\u00a0sebe, aj na\u0161e deti s\u00fa strojcami vlastn\u00fdch \u017eivotov&#8230; Ako to vn\u00edmate vy? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Nikdy som nemala pocit, \u017ee moje deti s\u00fa m\u00f4j majetok, \u017ee mi patria&#8230; Viem, \u017ee s\u00fa so mnou len na dobu ur\u010dit\u00fa, potom sa osamostatnia a\u00a0bud\u00fa chcie\u0165 sami rozhodova\u0165 o\u00a0svojom \u017eivote. Ale zasa viem, \u017ee sa na ne m\u00f4\u017eem spo\u013eahn\u00fa\u0165. Odmali\u010dka im d\u00e1vam dostatok vo\u013enosti, aby sa vedeli sami rozhodn\u00fa\u0165. A\u00a0ony to nijako nezneu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa, s\u00fa pokorn\u00e9 a\u00a0skromn\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ako sa d\u00e1 spomali\u0165 \u017eivot? Robi\u0165 menej<\/strong> <strong>vec\u00ed, aby ich \u010dlovek robil spr\u00e1vne&#8230; S\u00fahlas\u00edte s\u00a0touto my\u0161lienkou \u201epomalej filozofie\u201c?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Koncom \u0161kolsk\u00e9ho roka som mala pocit, \u017ee sa st\u00e1le niekam nah\u00e1\u0148am, a\u00a0pritom ni\u010d nest\u00edham. Radila som sa aj s\u00a0odborn\u00edkmi, lebo sa mi zdalo, \u017ee sama to u\u017e nezvl\u00e1dnem. Na\u0161\u0165astie pri\u0161li pr\u00e1zdniny a\u00a0dovolenky a\u00a0zrazu je v\u0161etko o.k. Asi sa tak trochu zbyto\u010dne st\u00e1le za nie\u010d\u00edm nah\u00e1\u0148ame&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Rob\u00edte nie\u010do pre to, aby ste sa do\u017eili vysok\u00e9ho veku?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ka\u017ed\u00fd de\u0148 vybehnem nespo\u010detnekr\u00e1t hore a dolu po schodoch (smiech).<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201eSmr\u0165 sa n\u00e1s net\u00fdka, lebo ke\u010f sme tu my, nie je tu smr\u0165 a\u00a0ke\u010f je tu smr\u0165, nie sme tu u\u017e my.\u201c<\/strong> <strong>Epikuros sa t\u00fdmto cit\u00e1tom zbavoval \u013eud\u00ed strachu pred smr\u0165ou. Zaber\u00e1 aj na v\u00e1s?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Keby sme mysleli na smr\u0165, ktorej sme, mimochodom, ka\u017ed\u00fdm d\u0148om bli\u017e\u0161ie, asi by sme pre\u017eili ve\u013emi smutn\u00fd \u017eivot. Hor\u0161ie je zmieri\u0165 sa so smr\u0165ou najbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch, to je pre m\u0148a naj\u0165a\u017e\u0161ie! \u017dia\u013e, smr\u0165 v\u00a0tejto podobe je s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou n\u00e1\u0161ho \u017eivota&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ak by ste sa mali charakterizova\u0165 ako Eur\u00f3panka, ak\u00e9 pr\u00edvlastky by ste pou\u017eili?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Eur\u00f3pu milujem, som na \u0148u hrd\u00e1, nikdy by som ju nemenila&#8230; A\u00a0v\u010faka Eur\u00f3pskej \u00fanii m\u00e1me politick\u00fa aj ekonomick\u00fa stabilitu a\u00a0vieme si vyrie\u0161i\u0165 v\u0161etky konflikty a\u00a0zachova\u0165 mier&#8230; \u010co si mnoh\u00ed \u013eudia neuvedomuj\u00fa a\u00a0nev\u00e1\u017eia.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Angelika, mark\u00edza anjelov, alebo Scarlet O&#8216;\u00a0Hara. Ktor\u00e1 z\u00a0nich v\u00e1m je bli\u017e\u0161ia? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ur\u010dite Angelika! Bola to siln\u00e1 \u017eena, za\u017eila pekn\u00e9 veci, l\u00e1sku, ale tie\u017e bola aj \u0165a\u017eko sk\u00fa\u0161an\u00e1 osudom a napriek jazv\u00e1m na du\u0161i sa nikdy nevzdala. Aj ke\u010f je to vymyslen\u00e1 postava, m\u00e1m ju rada&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>U\u017eili ste si so svojimi de\u0165mi nie\u010do, po \u010dom ste t\u00fa\u017eili ako die\u0165a a\u00a0z\u00a0r\u00f4znych d\u00f4vodov ste to nemali, nestihli&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>V\u0161etko, \u010do som v\u00a0detstve nestihla, napr\u00edklad robi\u0165 s\u00fa\u0165a\u017ene nejak\u00fd \u0161port alebo tanec, rada doprajem svojim de\u0165om. Podporujem ich tie\u017e vo v\u0161etk\u00fdch dobrodru\u017estv\u00e1ch, ktor\u00e9 som ja pre svoju v\u00e1\u017enu povahu a\u00a0nesmelos\u0165 neza\u017eila&#8230; A\u00a0teraz to ob\u010das za\u017e\u00edvam v\u010faka nim.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Najkraj\u0161ia re\u010d na svete &#8211; pod\u013ea v\u00e1s. A, samozrejme, pre\u010do? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Milujem franc\u00faz\u0161tinu, je to n\u00e1dhern\u00e1 re\u010d. Ako gymnazistka som sa prihl\u00e1sila na jazykov\u00fa \u0161kolu a\u00a0poctivo som sa ju u\u010dila st\u00e1le a\u00a0v\u0161ade, kde sa dalo. Potom som odi\u0161la do Par\u00ed\u017ea robi\u0165 opatrovate\u013eku, \u010do mi v\u00a0zdokonalen\u00ed ve\u013emi pomohlo. Aj angli\u010dtina je v\u0161ak kr\u00e1sna, najkraj\u0161ie pre m\u0148a znie z\u00a0\u00fast mojich det\u00ed, ktor\u00ed \u0148ou hovoria ako roden\u00ed Briti, ke\u010f\u017ee v\u0161etky predmety maj\u00fa v\u00a0angli\u010dtine.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Legenda o\u00a0kolibr\u00edkovi: V\u00a0lese vypukol po\u017eiar, v\u0161etky zvierat\u00e1 u\u0161li, len kolibr\u00edk zostal a\u00a0ne\u00fanavne naberal do zob\u00e1\u010dika vodu &#8211; akoby mohol t\u00fdmi p\u00e1r kvapkami po\u017eiar uhasi\u0165! Ke\u010f sa mu zvierat\u00e1 za to vysmievali, odpovedal, \u017ee on si iba rob\u00ed svoj diel pr\u00e1ce&#8230; Pripad\u00e1 v\u00e1m toto rozpr\u00e1vanie naivn\u00e9 ? Alebo je to pr\u00edklad zodpovednosti, ktor\u00fa by mal ma\u0165 ka\u017ed\u00fd z n\u00e1s?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Keby sme boli v\u0161etci ako ten kolibr\u00edk, svet by bol \u00fa\u017easn\u00fd!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Keby ste mali p\u00e4\u0165 skladieb \/ hudobn\u00fdch diel \/ pesni\u010diek vysla\u0165 do vesm\u00edru, ktor\u00e9 by to boli? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1. Skyfall od Adele; 2. Imagine od Johna Lennona; 3. Krstn\u00fd otec od Nina Rotu;<\/p>\n<p>4. \u0160tyri ro\u010dn\u00e9 obdobia od Vivaldiho;\u00a05. \u010cajkovskeho klav\u00edrny koncert b mol.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ktor\u00e1 historick\u00e1 udalos\u0165, hnutie \u010di m\u00ed\u013enik v\u00a0dejin\u00e1ch vzbudzuje vo v\u00e1s re\u0161pekt, \u00factu, obdiv? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Jednozna\u010dne Ne\u017en\u00e1 revol\u00facia v\u00a0roku 1989. Vyr\u00e1stla som v\u00a0socializme a\u00a0nikdy by mi nenapadlo, \u017ee t\u00e1 obrovsk\u00e1 moc komunistov sa m\u00f4\u017ee tak \u013eahko a\u00a0bez n\u00e1silia strati\u0165&#8230; Len v\u010faka s\u00fadr\u017enosti a\u00a0v\u00f4li \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed toho u\u017e mali dos\u0165.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u010co si mysl\u00edte, po \u010dom dne\u0161n\u00ed mu\u017ei t\u00fa\u017eia? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>M\u00e1m pocit, \u017ee dne\u0161n\u00ed modern\u00ed mu\u017ei sa op\u00e4\u0165 vracaj\u00fa k\u00a0tradi\u010dn\u00e9mu modelu \u017eeny &#8211; teda aby bola \u017eensk\u00e1, jemn\u00e1, ne\u017en\u00e1&#8230; \u017eiadna mu\u017eatka. Aby sa o\u00a0nich starala a\u00a0pritom im dala pocit, \u017ee s\u00fa d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00ed (smiech). A\u00a0tie\u017e si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee mu\u017ei oce\u0148uj\u00fa u\u00a0\u017eien prirodzenos\u0165.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201ePravda a\u00a0l\u00e1ska zv\u00ed\u0165az\u00ed nad l\u017eou a\u00a0nen\u00e1vis\u0165ou.\u201c Je tento v\u00fdrok V\u00e1clava Havla re\u00e1lny aj v\u00a021. storo\u010d\u00ed? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ak ver\u00edme, \u017ee v\u0161etko sa napokon na dobr\u00e9 obr\u00e1ti a\u00a0pravda a\u00a0l\u00e1ska zv\u00ed\u0165az\u00ed, aj n\u00e1m sa potom \u017eije \u013eah\u0161ie a\u00a0\u0161\u0165astnej\u0161ie. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee jeho posolstvo je u\u017eito\u010dn\u00e9 a\u00a0mali by sme si z\u00a0neho bra\u0165 pr\u00edklad.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Do politiky treba vr\u00e1ti\u0165 mor\u00e1lku a\u00a0slu\u0161nos\u0165 &#8211; mysl\u00edte si, \u017ee toto politick\u00e9 kr\u00e9do n\u00e1\u0161ho nov\u00e9ho prezidenta sa podar\u00ed aj naplni\u0165? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Uvid\u00edme, e\u0161te len za\u010d\u00edna, dajme mu \u010das. Zatia\u013e pln\u00ed v\u0161etky svoje s\u013euby.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Pod\u013ea losangelesk\u00e9ho z\u00e1hradn\u00edka Rona Finleyho \u201ez\u00e1hradk\u00e1r\u010denie je lacnej\u0161ie ako terapia a\u00a0e\u0161te k\u00a0tomu z\u00edskate paradajky\u201c&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>P\u00e1n Finley m\u00e1 pravdu, z\u00e1hradk\u00e1r\u010denie na vlastnom je relax. A\u00a0je \u00fa\u017easn\u00e9 zbiera\u0165 \u00farodu, paradajky, papriky&#8230; U\u017e roky var\u00edm zeleninov\u00fa polievku iba z\u00a0\u010derstvo nazbieranej bio zeleniny. Nerada ju s\u00edce polhodiny um\u00fdvam a\u00a0\u010dist\u00edm od hliny, ale\u00a0t\u00e1 v\u00f4\u0148a je neocenite\u013en\u00e1!<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mysl\u00edte, \u017ee aj pri\u00a0t\u00e9me \u201epeniaze\u201c existuje \u010dosi ako \u201erodov\u00e9 rozdiely\u201c? \u017de mu\u017ei maj\u00fa in\u00fd vz\u0165ah k\u00a0peniazom, ako \u017eeny? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Mu\u017ei s\u00fa jednozna\u010dne odv\u00e1\u017enej\u0161\u00ed v\u00a0investovan\u00ed, ale aj v hazardovan\u00ed s peniazmi, \u017eeny s\u00fa opatrnej\u0161ie. Ale celkovo si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee z\u00e1vis\u00ed viac od individuality \u010dloveka, ako od pohlavia, do akej miery s\u00fa peniaze pre neho d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e9 Peniaze v\u0161etci k be\u017en\u00e9mu \u017eivotu potrebujeme, \u017eia\u013e, niektor\u00ed s\u00fa pre ne ochotn\u00ed urobi\u0165 \u010doko\u013evek. A peniaze s\u00fa vraj aj naj\u010dastej\u0161\u00edm d\u00f4vodom na h\u00e1dky medzi man\u017eelmi.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>V\u00e1\u0161 najkraj\u0161\u00ed, najsilnej\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitok ak\u00e9hoko\u013evek druhu za posledn\u00e9 obdobie. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Z\u00a0dovolenky pri mori som sa pred p\u00e1r t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ami vr\u00e1tila ako nov\u00fd, odd\u00fdchnut\u00fd \u010dlovek. Nebol to s\u00edce najsilnej\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1\u017eitok, ale ur\u010dite ve\u013emi pr\u00edjemn\u00fd&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Simonetta Zalov\u00e1 foto Jozef Barinka &nbsp; Patr\u00ed ku\u00a0st\u00e1liciam spravodajsk\u00e9ho t\u00edmu telev\u00edzie JOJ. Tento rok je to presne desa\u0165 rokov, odkedy sa Adriana Kmotr\u00edkov\u00e1 stala moder\u00e1torkou hlavnej spravodajskej rel\u00e1cie. Ke\u010f za\u010d\u00ednala v\u00a0TV JOJ, jej deti boli e\u0161te celkom mal\u00e9, dnes m\u00e1 dc\u00e9ra Linda 13 a\u00a0syn Tom\u00e1\u0161 14 rokov. Hoci sa narodila v\u00a0znamen\u00ed Leva, sama hovor\u00ed, \u017ee [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,17],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-113","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-etc","category-september-2014"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=113"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":193,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/113\/revisions\/193"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=113"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=113"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=113"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}