{"id":9297,"date":"2021-11-11T00:09:23","date_gmt":"2021-11-10T22:09:23","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/?p=9297"},"modified":"2021-11-11T00:09:23","modified_gmt":"2021-11-10T22:09:23","slug":"nastaran-alaghmandan-motlagh-byt-irankou-nie-je-cele-moje-ja","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/nastaran-alaghmandan-motlagh-byt-irankou-nie-je-cele-moje-ja\/","title":{"rendered":"Nastaran Alaghmandan Motlagh &#8211; By\u0165 Ir\u00e1nkou nie je cel\u00e9 moje ja"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Priaznivci stand-upovej sc\u00e9ny ju poznaj\u00fa ako Nasi. Na Slovensko pri\u0161la so svojimi rodi\u010dmi ako p\u00e4tn\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00e1 v\u00a0roku 2010. V\u00a0Bratislave vy\u0161tudovala politol\u00f3giu a\u00a0medzin\u00e1rodn\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy na Fakulte soci\u00e1lnych a ekonomick\u00fdch vied UK a t\u00e9mou jej bakal\u00e1rskej pr\u00e1ce bola in<\/em><em>tegr\u00e1cia Eur\u00f3pskej \u00fanie. Ku<\/em><em>\u00a0stand-upu ju priviedol star\u0161\u00ed brat, komik Siavash. Nasi aktu\u00e1lne vystupuje pod hlavi\u010dkou stand-upov\u00e9ho zoskupenia Siln\u00e9 re\u010di po celom Slovensku, ba\u00a0aj v\u00a0pri\u013eahlej Viedni. A\u00a0hoci sa\u00a0jej e\u0161te st\u00e1le lep\u0161ie vystupuje v\u00a0angli\u010dtine, so sloven\u010dinou u\u017e nem\u00e1 takmer \u017eiadny probl\u00e9m. Teda, a\u017e na p\u00e1r mil\u00fdch drobnost\u00ed, ako ke\u010f n\u00e1m v rozhovore namiesto slovka \u201ekorene\u201c tvrdila, \u017ee svoje \u201ekorenie\u201c m\u00e1 st\u00e1le v\u00a0Ir\u00e1ne&#8230;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/v-153_UP5890.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-9300\" src=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/v-153_UP5890-200x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/v-153_UP5890-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/v-153_UP5890-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/v-153_UP5890-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/v-153_UP5890.jpg 984w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 200px) 100vw, 200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><strong> Po\u010d\u00favala ste aj v\u00a0Ir\u00e1ne ako diev\u010datko r\u00f4zne ponau\u010denia o\u00a0tom, ako sa m\u00e1te spr\u00e1va\u0165, ke\u010f ste sa u\u017e narodili ako diev\u010da?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Ke\u010f som mala sedem &#8211; osem rokov, za\u010dala som si v\u0161\u00edma\u0165, \u017ee m\u00f4j star\u0161\u00ed brat sa nemus\u00ed stara\u0165 o\u00a0kopec vec\u00ed, ktor\u00e9 sa t\u00fdkali m\u0148a: napr\u00edklad, ako sa oblieka\u0165, \u017ee moja suk\u0148a mus\u00ed by\u0165 v\u017edy primerane dlh\u00e1, rovnako tak ruk\u00e1vy, pri\u010dom u\u00a0neho bolo jedno, ak\u00e9 nohavice nos\u00ed. Ale, na\u0161\u0165astie, moji rodi\u010dia sa sna\u017eili, aby tie rozdiely boli \u010do najmen\u0161ie, vysvetlili mi, \u017ee sa m\u00f4\u017eem oblieka\u0165, ako chcem, ale mus\u00edm re\u0161pektova\u0165 pravidl\u00e1, najm\u00e4 ke\u010f sme vonku a d\u00e1va\u0165 si na to pozor. \u017dili sme v\u00a0islamskej krajine, kde sa \u017eeny musia oblieka\u0165 skromne a\u00a0pod\u013ea pravidiel. Av\u0161ak doma za zavret\u00fdmi dvermi to bolo celkom in\u00e9. Moja mamina v\u017edy chcela, aby som pochopila, \u017ee moja hodnota ako \u010dloveka nem\u00e1 ni\u010d spolo\u010dn\u00e9 s\u00a0t\u00fdm, ako sa obliekam.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"2\">\n<li><strong> Pam\u00e4t\u00e1te si svoju najob\u013e\u00fabenej\u0161iu ir\u00e1nsku rozpr\u00e1vku? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Asi to bola \u201eLeila o\u00a0Majnoon\u201c (Lejla a Mad\u017eun), o\u00a0chlapcovi, ktor\u00fd sa zamiloval do \u0161kared\u00e9ho diev\u010da\u0165a a\u00a0hoci sa mu v\u0161etci posmievali, vo svojej l\u00e1ske vytrval a\u00a0bolo mu jedno, \u010do si o\u00a0\u0148om ostatn\u00ed myslia. To ma na tej rozpr\u00e1vke fascinovalo &#8211; \u017ee na svete s\u00fa \u013eudia, konkr\u00e9tne mu\u017ei, ktor\u00fdm nevad\u00ed, ako vyzer\u00e1\u0161 a aj tak sa do teba zamiluj\u00fa. Tento pr\u00edbeh som prv\u00fdkr\u00e1t po\u010dula na rodinnej oslave, mala som dev\u00e4\u0165 rokov, pam\u00e4t\u00e1m si, \u017ee teta mi ho musela rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 viackr\u00e1t za sebou. Namiesto rozpr\u00e1vok na dobr\u00fa noc mi mama zvykla spieva\u0165 usp\u00e1vanky. Na\u0161a spolo\u010dn\u00e1 najob\u013e\u00fabenej\u0161ia bola \u201eG\u00f3le Anar\u201c, \u010do sa d\u00e1 prelo\u017ei\u0165 ako \u201ekvietok gran\u00e1tov\u00e9ho jablka\u201c a tie\u017e je o l\u00e1ske.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"3\">\n<li><strong> \u010co ste sa dozvedeli ako dospievaj\u00faca t\u00edned\u017eerka v\u00a0Ir\u00e1ne o\u00a0mu\u017eoch? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Hlavne ma \u0161tvalo, ke\u010f som pochopila, \u017ee mnoh\u00e9 dvere zostan\u00fa pre m\u0148a zavret\u00e9 len preto, \u017ee som diev\u010da. \u017de sa mi nikdy nenaskytne to\u013eko pr\u00edle\u017eitost\u00ed a\u00a0mo\u017enost\u00ed ako chlapcom a\u00a0\u017ee nedostanem ani len \u0161ancu presved\u010di\u0165 ostatn\u00fdch, \u017ee dan\u00fa vec dok\u00e1\u017eem zvl\u00e1dnu\u0165 presne ako mu\u017e, ak nie lep\u0161ie (smiech). Z toho som bola z\u00fafal\u00e1! Ako t\u00edned\u017eerku ma ve\u013emi frustrovalo, \u017ee ak by som chcela by\u0165 here\u010dkou, st\u00e1le ma bude sputn\u00e1va\u0165 mno\u017estvo obmedzen\u00ed &#8211; u\u017e len t\u00e1 nutnos\u0165 ma\u0165 vlasy st\u00e1le schovan\u00e9 pod hid\u017e\u00e1bom&#8230; A\u00a0ak by som, nebodaj, chcela re\u017e\u00edrova\u0165, bude to stra\u0161ne \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9, lebo v\u00a0Ir\u00e1ne sa to berie ako v\u00fdlu\u010dne mu\u017esk\u00e1 profesia. \u017deny v\u00a0Ir\u00e1ne s\u00edce m\u00f4\u017eu voli\u0165 a\u00a0\u0161of\u00e9rova\u0165, ale dosta\u0165 sa na nejak\u00fa autoritat\u00edvnu poz\u00edciu je takmer nemo\u017en\u00e9.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"4\">\n<li><strong> \u010co vo va\u0161ej rodine platilo v\u017edy a so \u017eeleznou istotou? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>To, \u017ee ak chce\u0161 niekoho kritizova\u0165, mus\u00ed\u0161 vedie\u0165 sp\u00e4tne tolerova\u0165 kritiku aj ty.\u00a0 Tie\u017e, \u017ee ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 je aj sebakritika. Ak si chcem robi\u0165 srandu z\u00a0ostatn\u00fdch, mus\u00edm by\u0165 pripraven\u00e1, \u017ee mi to m\u00f4\u017eu vr\u00e1ti\u0165. Ak niekedy budem kritizova\u0165 Slovensko za to, \u017ee tu \u017eij\u00fa rasistick\u00ed \u013eudia, nem\u00f4\u017eem ignorova\u0165 fakt, \u017ee takisto v Ir\u00e1ne s\u00fa rasisti. Treba by\u0165 objekt\u00edvny a by\u0165 ochotn\u00fd rozpr\u00e1va\u0165 sa o pravde vo v\u00e4\u010d\u0161om rozsahu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"5\">\n<li><strong> Pod\u013ea v\u00e1s Slov\u00e1ci a\u00a0Ir\u00e1nci toho maj\u00fa ve\u013ea spolo\u010dn\u00e9ho. Aj my sme (za socializmu) v\u0161eli\u010do nemohli: cestova\u0165 po svete, po\u010d\u00fava\u0165 hudbu zo z\u00e1padu alebo pozera\u0165 filmy, \u0161tudova\u0165&#8230;<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>V\u00a0Ir\u00e1ne je z\u00e1padn\u00e1 kult\u00fara zak\u00e1zan\u00e1. Ja som si napr\u00edklad filmy ako Twilight alebo Ironman k\u00fapila na \u010diernom trhu. Ak sa aj v\u00a0Ir\u00e1ne premietaj\u00fa nejak\u00e9 americk\u00e9 filmy, \u010dasto b\u00fdvaj\u00fa ve\u013emi cenzurovan\u00e9. Z\u00e1padn\u00e1 kult\u00fara, hlavne americk\u00e1, britsk\u00e1 \u010di franc\u00fazska, je tabu, lebo Ir\u00e1n m\u00e1 ve\u013emi komplikovan\u00fa hist\u00f3riu s t\u00fdmto krajinami a vl\u00e1da sa v\u0161emo\u017ene sna\u017e\u00ed obmedzi\u0165 ich vplyv na Ir\u00e1ncov. Moji rodi\u010dia v\u0161ak boli pokrokov\u00ed, a\u00a0tak sa (\u010dasto aj neleg\u00e1lnym sp\u00f4sobom) dok\u00e1zali k\u00a0z\u00e1padnej kult\u00fare dosta\u0165. Obaja s\u00fa u\u010ditelia angli\u010dtiny (aj tu, na Slovensku), tak\u017ee doma sme cez neleg\u00e1lny prij\u00edma\u010d pozerali seri\u00e1ly ako Priatelia \u010di Simpsonovci, aby sme si s\u00a0bratom zlep\u0161ili angli\u010dtinu. Vtedy som to nech\u00e1pala &#8211; \u010do je na t\u00fdch filmoch probl\u00e9m?! Dnes tomu rozumiem a je mi hrozne \u013e\u00fato, ako v\u0161etky tieto z\u00e1kazy izoluj\u00fa Ir\u00e1ncov od ostatn\u00e9ho sveta.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/s-473_UP6121.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-medium wp-image-9298\" src=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/s-473_UP6121-300x200.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/s-473_UP6121-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/s-473_UP6121-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/s-473_UP6121.jpg 984w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"6\">\n<li><strong> Na Slovensku Ir\u00e1nec znamen\u00e1 automaticky moslim. Je to tak? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u00c1no, lebo krajina, kde som sa narodila, sa ofici\u00e1lne vol\u00e1 Ir\u00e1nska islamsk\u00e1 republika. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina obyvate\u013eov Ir\u00e1nu vyzn\u00e1va islam a s\u00fa moslimovia. Dnes je v\u0161ak s\u00a0t\u00fdmto ozna\u010den\u00edm spojen\u00fdch to\u013eko negat\u00edvnych asoci\u00e1ci\u00ed, \u017ee my, \u010do nie sme moslimovia, to m\u00e1me ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9. Ja som ateistka. Moji rodi\u010dia v\u00a0ot\u00e1zke viery a\u00a0n\u00e1bo\u017eenstva na m\u0148a nikdy netla\u010dili. Ale v \u0161kole sme sa toho o\u00a0islame u\u010dili ve\u013emi ve\u013ea. Za najv\u00e4\u010d\u0161ie kli\u0161\u00e9 o islame a moslimoch (okrem terorizmu) pova\u017eujem n\u00e1zor, \u017ee moslimovia nezn\u00e1\u0161aj\u00fa kres\u0165anov, Je\u017ei\u0161a a ostatn\u00e9 vierovyznania. To sved\u010d\u00ed o\u00a0tom, \u017ee v\u00e4\u010d\u0161ina kres\u0165anov nem\u00e1 potuchy o\u00a0tom, \u010do p\u00ed\u0161e Kor\u00e1n o\u00a0Je\u017ei\u0161ovi. Moslimovia uzn\u00e1vaj\u00fa Je\u017ei\u0161a ako proroka, za tak\u00e9ho, \u010di\u017ee za svojho predchodcu, ho pova\u017euje aj s\u00e1m Mohamed.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol start=\"7\">\n<li><strong> Ako to vyzer\u00e1 s\u00a0ir\u00e1nskou komunitou na Slovensku? Viete o\u00a0sebe, stret\u00e1vate sa, pom\u00e1hate si?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>\u00c1no, samozrejme, mysl\u00edm, \u017ee men\u0161inov\u00e9 skupiny by mali dr\u017ea\u0165 spolu a pom\u00e1ha\u0165 si. Pravidelne sa stret\u00e1vame pri pr\u00edle\u017eitosti ir\u00e1nskeho Nov\u00e9ho roka &#8211; 21. marca. Vtedy spolu oslavujeme de\u0148, ke\u010f za\u010d\u00edna jar a zem sa obnovuje. Stret\u00e1vame sa v ir\u00e1nskej re\u0161taur\u00e1cii v\u00a0Bratislave pri dobrom ir\u00e1nskom jedle. Je to ve\u013ek\u00e1 a kr\u00e1sna ve\u010dera. Tento rok sme oslavovali pr\u00edchod roku 1400. Ve\u013ea z\u00a0n\u00e1s, Ir\u00e1ncov, takisto oslavuje slovensk\u00e9 sviatky. V\u00e4\u010d\u0161inou ale iba Vianoce a Silvester.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"8\">\n<li><strong> U\u00a0n\u00e1s sa hovor\u00ed \u201eJablko nepad\u00e1 \u010faleko od stromu\u201c. V\u00a0\u010dom sa podob\u00e1te na svoju mamu? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Som hrd\u00e1 na to, \u017ee som po nej tvrdohlav\u00e1, ale v\u00a0pozit\u00edvnom slova zmysle. A\u00a0tie\u017e som po nej sn\u00e1\u010f zdedila dobr\u00e9 logick\u00e9 myslenie. Niekedy treba akceptova\u0165\u00a0 realitu, ak\u00e1 je a niekedy treba bojova\u0165 za svoju slobodu a \u0161\u0165astie. Mysl\u00edm, \u017ee som presne ako ona &#8211; \u017ee dok\u00e1\u017eem vyc\u00edti\u0165, kedy u\u017e zmena nie je mo\u017en\u00e1, ale niekedy som zasa ochotn\u00e1 bojova\u0165 za to, v \u010do ver\u00edm.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"9\">\n<li><strong> Ke\u010f sa raz vyd\u00e1te, zoberiete si priezvisko od man\u017eela? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Mo\u017eno, ale nemysl\u00edm si, \u017ee je to a\u017e tak\u00e1 d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 vec. V Ir\u00e1ne si \u017eeny po vydaji neber\u00fa man\u017eelovo priezvisko, zostane im to p\u00f4vodn\u00e9, teda v\u00a0mojom pr\u00edpade Alaghmandan Motlagh. A \u010di moje priezvisko nie\u010do znamen\u00e1 a\u00a0pre\u010do je zlo\u017een\u00e9 z\u00a0dvoch slov? Alaghmandan znamen\u00e1 zauj\u00edmav\u00fd (resp. \u010dlovek, ktor\u00fd m\u00e1 z\u00e1ujem) a Motlagh absol\u00fatny. \u010ci\u017ee absol\u00fatne zauj\u00edmav\u00fd? (smiech).<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ol start=\"10\">\n<li><strong> Museli ste niekedy \u201estiahnu\u0165 chvost\u201c len preto, \u017ee ste emigrantka?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Hej. Ke\u010f sa nie\u010do stalo a ja som ostala tich\u00e1, a\u00a0nebolo to kv\u00f4li tomu, \u017ee by som nechcela alebo nevedela zabojova\u0165, ale pre to, \u017ee som si nebola ist\u00e1, \u010di m\u00f4\u017eem v\u00f4bec nie\u010do poveda\u0165 alebo presadi\u0165 svoj n\u00e1zor. Nebola som si ist\u00e1, \u010di si zasl\u00fa\u017eim ma\u0165 nejak\u00fd n\u00e1zor. Ale teraz u\u017e viem, \u017ee \u00e1no a sna\u017e\u00edm sa v\u00a0tom zlep\u0161ova\u0165.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Simonetta Zalov\u00e1<\/p>\n<p>foto Gabina Weissov\u00e1<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Druh\u00fa desiatku ot\u00e1zok a odpoved\u00ed si pre\u010d\u00edtate v novembrovom \u010d\u00edsle MIAU (2021)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; Priaznivci stand-upovej sc\u00e9ny ju poznaj\u00fa ako Nasi. Na Slovensko pri\u0161la so svojimi rodi\u010dmi ako p\u00e4tn\u00e1s\u0165ro\u010dn\u00e1 v\u00a0roku 2010. V\u00a0Bratislave vy\u0161tudovala politol\u00f3giu a\u00a0medzin\u00e1rodn\u00e9 vz\u0165ahy na Fakulte soci\u00e1lnych a ekonomick\u00fdch vied UK a t\u00e9mou jej bakal\u00e1rskej pr\u00e1ce bola integr\u00e1cia Eur\u00f3pskej \u00fanie. Ku\u00a0stand-upu ju priviedol star\u0161\u00ed brat, komik Siavash. Nasi aktu\u00e1lne vystupuje pod hlavi\u010dkou stand-upov\u00e9ho zoskupenia Siln\u00e9 re\u010di [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":9309,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,103],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9297","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-etc","category-november-2021"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9297","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9297"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9297\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9302,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9297\/revisions\/9302"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9309"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9297"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9297"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9297"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}