{"id":9524,"date":"2021-12-15T10:59:15","date_gmt":"2021-12-15T08:59:15","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/?p=9524"},"modified":"2021-12-15T10:59:15","modified_gmt":"2021-12-15T08:59:15","slug":"simona-salatova-ak-si-zena-bud-sama-sebou-ak-si-muz-bud-viac-zenou","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/simona-salatova-ak-si-zena-bud-sama-sebou-ak-si-muz-bud-viac-zenou\/","title":{"rendered":"Simona Sal\u00e1tov\u00e1 – Ak si \u017eena, bu\u010f sama sebou. Ak si mu\u017e, bu\u010f viac \u017eenou."},"content":{"rendered":"

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Ak ste ju nemali mo\u017enos\u0165 vidie\u0165 na\u017eivo v\u00a0parti\u010dke stand-up komikov zo zoskupenia Siln\u00e9 re\u010di, mo\u017eno v\u00e1s bavia jej hl\u00e1\u0161ky ako st\u00e1lej \u010dlenky Silnej zostavy, diskusnej rel\u00e1cie RTVS, popr\u00edpade patr\u00edte k\u00a0jednej z\u00a0takmer p\u00e4\u0165desiatich tis\u00edc followeriek jej instagramov\u00e9ho \u00fa\u010dtu simonacomedy. Komi\u010dka Simona Sal\u00e1tov\u00e1 m\u00e1 za sebou siln\u00fd pr\u00edbeh diev\u010da\u0165a vyrastaj\u00faceho v\u00a0rodine n\u00e1siln\u00edka, a\u00a0tak ne\u010dudo, \u017ee p\u00f4sob\u00ed aj ako ambas\u00e1dorka spolo\u010dnosti AVON v\u00a0r\u00e1mci jej charitat\u00edvneho projektu AVON proti dom\u00e1cemu n\u00e1siliu. <\/em><\/p>\n

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  1. Ke\u010f sme boli mal\u00e9, v pam\u00e4tn\u00ed\u010dkoch sme m\u00e1vali nap\u00edsan\u00e9: \u201eBu\u010f skromn\u00e1<\/em> ako kvet<\/em>, bude \u0165a milova\u0165 cel\u00fd svet<\/em>.\u201c\u00a0 <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    A\u017e teraz zis\u0165ujem, ak\u00e9 hl\u00faposti som mala nap\u00edsan\u00e9 v\u00a0pam\u00e4tn\u00ed\u010dku a\u00a0formovali ma, haha. Skromnos\u0165 je pre m\u0148a samo o\u00a0sebe dos\u0165 ortodoxn\u00e9 slovo, ove\u013ea viac ob\u013eubujem slovo pokora, ktor\u00e9 mi m\u00f4j star\u00fd otec v\u0161tepoval nato\u013eko, \u017ee som si chv\u00ed\u013eu myslela, \u017ee sa tak vol\u00e1m. Je to pre m\u0148a ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00e1 s\u00fa\u010das\u0165 \u017eivota. S\u00a0pokorou sa \u010dlovek nestrat\u00ed s\u00e1m v\u00a0sebe. A\u00a0keby som dnes dostala do ruky pam\u00e4tn\u00ed\u010dek nejakej \u017eeny, tak jej tam jednozna\u010dne nap\u00ed\u0161em: ,,Si kr\u00e1sna, odv\u00e1\u017ena a\u00a0rastie\u0161 ako kvet, s\u00a0n\u00e1zormi sa m\u00f4\u017ee niekam str\u010di\u0165 pokojne aj cel\u00fd svet.\u201c<\/p>\n

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    1. Ako mlad\u00e9 diev\u010da ste robili sprievodky\u0148u na hrade Stre\u010dno… Nebodaj ste v\u00a0\u0161kole m\u00e1vali jednotku z\u00a0dejepisu? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

      Milujem hist\u00f3riu, ale nie som ve\u013emi \u201ezapam\u00e4t\u00e1vac\u00ed\u201c typ. In\u0161piruje ma by\u0165 na miestach dej\u00edn, na star\u00fdch hradoch, prech\u00e1dza\u0165 sa po miestach, ktor\u00e9 si u\u017e \u010do-to pam\u00e4taj\u00fa a\u00a0predstavova\u0165 si, ako sa \u017eilo kedysi. Poch\u00e1dzam z\u00a0Tepli\u010dky nad V\u00e1hom, kde dlh\u00e9 roky odpo\u010d\u00edvala m\u00famia \u017dofie Bosniakovej. \u017dofia Bosniakov\u00e1 bola uctievan\u00e1 \u017eena, ktorej telo sa nerozlo\u017eilo stovky rokov po smrti, a\u00a0tak sme ju mali vylo\u017een\u00fa v\u00a0kaplnke kostola. Chodili sa na \u0148u pozera\u0165 turisti a\u00a0my sme sa starali s\u00a0tetami o\u00a0to, aby bola pekne oble\u010den\u00e1. Tak\u017ee u\u017e v\u00a0skorom veku som mala ve\u013emi int\u00edmny kontakt s\u00a0hist\u00f3riou a\u00a0zachoval\u00fdmi m\u0155tvolami (smiech).<\/p>\n

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      1. Vzh\u013eadom k\u00a0v\u00e1\u0161mu nie ve\u013emi pekn\u00e9mu detstvu sa k\u00a0vlastnej minulosti asi sk\u00f4r obraciate chrbtom? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

        Zauj\u00edma ma minulos\u0165, ale v\u00a0tej mojej sa a\u017e tak ne\u0161p\u00e1ram. Tam si dok\u00e1\u017eem poveda\u0165: \u010do bolo, to bolo. To, \u010do som pre\u017eila, ma nutne formovalo, a\u00a0to je aj jedin\u00fd d\u00f4vod, pre\u010do by som pr\u00e1ve v\u00a0mojej minulosti mala h\u013eada\u0165 odpovede na ot\u00e1zky, pre\u010do som dnes tam, kde som. Odpor\u00fa\u010dam to ka\u017ed\u00e9mu, ale s\u00a0ur\u010ditou mierou racionality. Pozn\u00e1m ve\u013ea \u013eud\u00ed, ktor\u00ed sa zakliesnili v\u00a0odmietnutiach, sklamaniach a\u00a0nepodarkoch minulosti a\u00a0ovplyv\u0148uje to ich bud\u00facnos\u0165. To je najhor\u0161ie. Rada rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013eam nad t\u00fdm, \u010do ma \u010dak\u00e1. Predstavujem si pekn\u00e9 a\u00a0dobr\u00e9 veci. Preto\u017ee to, \u010do si mysl\u00edte, to ste. Mohlo by aj plati\u0165, \u017ee to, \u010do si predstavujete, sa stane.<\/p>\n

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        1. Citujem v\u00e1s: ,,Ak si \u017eena, bu\u010f sama sebou. Ak si mu\u017e, bu\u010f viac \u017eenou.\u201c<\/em><\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

          \u017deny maj\u00fa nezamenite\u013en\u00e9 v\u00fdhody osobnosti, ktor\u00e9 ak vieme spr\u00e1vne pou\u017e\u00edva\u0165 (rozumej sme samy sebou), s\u00fa hostinou pre na\u0161e vz\u0165ahy a\u00a0spolo\u010dnos\u0165. Mu\u017ei maj\u00fa v\u00a0sebe tie\u017e schopnos\u0165 vyu\u017e\u00edva\u0165 ak\u00fdsi \u017eensk\u00fd princ\u00edp – viac \u013eudsk\u00e9ho a\u017e emocion\u00e1lneho pr\u00edstupu, schopnos\u0165 empatie \u010di zmysel pre spravodlivos\u0165. Viac by som ho chcela vidie\u0165 napr\u00edklad v\u00a0politike a\u00a0na ved\u00facich postoch. U\u017e Margaret Thatcher vravela, \u017ee \u017eena, ktor\u00e1 ch\u00e1pe probl\u00e9my s\u00a0veden\u00edm dom\u00e1cnosti, lep\u0161ie pochop\u00ed probl\u00e9my s\u00a0veden\u00edm krajiny.<\/em><\/p>\n

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          1. Bez mamy po svojom boku – ako ste sa u\u010dili by\u0165 mamou vy? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

            Predstavte si, \u017ee idete na s\u00fa\u0165a\u017e v\u00a0\u0161trikovan\u00ed, ale nikdy predt\u00fdm ste ne\u0161trikovali. V\u00fdhra je cenn\u00e1 a\u00a0chcete ju vyhra\u0165. Proti v\u00e1m nastupuj\u00fa tie najakt\u00edvnej\u0161ie prispievate\u013eky z\u00a0Burdy a\u00a0babi\u010dky, \u010do maj\u00fa od\u0161trikovan\u00e9 svetre aj pre chobotnice. Za\u010dnete \u0161tudova\u0165, sk\u00fa\u0161a\u0165, pre\u010d\u00edtate ka\u017ed\u00fa mo\u017en\u00fa pr\u00edru\u010dku, pozriete si video. Naraz prich\u00e1dzate na v\u0161etko, lebo na v\u00fdhre v\u00e1m ve\u013emi z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed. Nakoniec sa pokojne m\u00f4\u017ee sta\u0165, \u017ee t\u00fa s\u00fa\u0165a\u017e vyhr\u00e1te, aj ke\u010f ste za\u010d\u00ednali ako nepop\u00edsan\u00fd papier. Takto by som pop\u00edsala moje materstvo. Vedela som iba, ako ne\u0161trikova\u0165.<\/p>\n

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            1. Presadzujete vo v\u00fdchove svojho \u0161es\u0165ro\u010dn\u00e9ho syna pravidlo hovori\u0165 v\u0161etko na rovinu? Alebo je jeho detstvo pln\u00e9 bocianov, \u010do nosia deti a\u00a0Je\u017ei\u0161kov, \u010do nosia dobr\u00fdm de\u0165om viano\u010dn\u00e9 dar\u010deky? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

              Ve\u013emi sa mi so synom osved\u010dilo komunikova\u0165 v\u0161etko na rovinu, pre\u0161li sme ve\u013emi \u0165a\u017ek\u00e9 veci a\u00a0on musel by\u0165 m\u00f4j ,,partner in crime\u201c, aby sme to zvl\u00e1dli. Nikto nep\u00f4jde vpravo, ke\u010f mu nepoviete pre\u010do. Mne sa to so synom extr\u00e9mne vyplatilo a\u00a0odpor\u00fa\u010dam to ka\u017edej s\u00fa\u0165a\u017eiacej v\u00a0\u0161trikovan\u00ed.<\/p>\n

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              1. Tak\u017ee ani \u017eiaden Je\u017ei\u0161ko a\u00a0viano\u010dn\u00e9 dar\u010deky na jeho \u00fa\u010det? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                Poctivo som synovi po minul\u00e9 roky chystala Je\u017ei\u0161ka a\u00a0potom si u\u017e\u00edvala ten pocit, ako chv\u00e1li a\u00a0\u010fakuje nezn\u00e1memu mu\u017eovi, ktor\u00fd sa n\u00e1m nejak\u00fdm pofid\u00e9rnym sp\u00f4sobom votrel do bytu (smiech). Ke\u010f\u017ee nie som veriaca, u\u017e po minul\u00fdch Vianociach som za\u010dala rozm\u00fd\u0161\u013ea\u0165 nad t\u00fdm, ak\u00fd to m\u00e1 v\u00fdznam. Nechcela som v\u0161ak, aby sa pre neho stratilo \u010daro Vianoc. Ale pre\u010d\u00edtala som si nieko\u013eko \u0161ikovn\u00fdch sp\u00f4sobov od rodi\u010dov, ktor\u00ed to u\u017e tie\u017e rie\u0161ili, a\u00a0tak som tento rok synovi povedala pravdu. Cel\u00fd \u017eivot pre\u017eil so mnou a\u00a0\u00faprimnos\u0165 sa u\u00a0n\u00e1s ve\u013emi cen\u00ed. Sk\u00f4r ho zasiahlo to, \u017ee som mu klamala, ako skuto\u010dnos\u0165, \u017ee dar\u010deky nenos\u00ed Je\u017ei\u0161ko. Nechcem mu u\u017e nikdy klama\u0165. O\u00a0tom bud\u00fa tieto Vianoce. Je plnohodnotn\u00fd \u010dlovie\u010dik a\u00a0vie mi urobi\u0165 obrovsk\u00fa rados\u0165. V\u010faka tomu nemus\u00edm ma\u0165 pocit, \u017ee cel\u00e9 Vianoce a\u00a0Je\u017ei\u0161kove k\u00fazla s\u00fa na mojich pleciach. V\u0161etci vieme, na \u010dom sme a\u00a0spolo\u010dne sa usilujeme, aby to boli dni pln\u00e9 l\u00e1sky.<\/p>\n

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                1. Ste ambas\u00e1dorkou projektu AVON proti dom\u00e1cemu n\u00e1siliu. Pre\u010do ste do tejto spolupr\u00e1ce \u0161li a \u010do v\u00e1m na nej konvenuje najviac?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                  Avon ma fascinuje ako ve\u013ek\u00e1 zna\u010dka, ktor\u00e1 nezab\u00fada popri zisku robi\u0165 dobr\u00e9 veci. V\u00a0ide\u00e1lnom svete by sme mali v\u0161etky ve\u013ek\u00e9 zna\u010dky vidie\u0165 kona\u0165 dobro tak\u00fdmto zanieten\u00fdm sp\u00f4sobom. Obrovsk\u00e9 kampane na boj proti rakovine prsn\u00edka a\u00a0proti dom\u00e1cemu n\u00e1siliu pom\u00e1haj\u00fa mnoh\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m na Slovensku a\u00a0ani o\u00a0tom nevieme. Imponuje mi, \u017ee AVON dlhodobo pom\u00e1ha \u017een\u00e1m sta\u0165 sa kraj\u0161\u00edmi, \u00faspe\u0161nej\u0161\u00edmi a\u00a0sebavedomej\u0161\u00edmi.<\/p>\n

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                  1. Aliancia \u017eien, s\u00a0ktorou AVON dlhodobo spolupracuje, prev\u00e1dzkuje S.O.S. linku pre t\u00fdran\u00e9 \u017eeny. Keby fungovala v\u00a0\u010dase, ke\u010f ste vy ako rodina, ale hlavne va\u0161a mama, museli \u010deli\u0165 n\u00e1siliu zo strany otca, vyu\u017eili by ste ju? <\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                    Je to ot\u00e1zka sk\u00f4r na moju mamu, ke\u010f\u017ee ja ako die\u0165a som nemala v\u00a0tej dobe pr\u00edstup k\u00a0tak\u00fdm inform\u00e1ci\u00e1m, obzvl\u00e1\u0161\u0165 nie na dedine na severe Slovenska. To je v\u00fdzva aj dne\u0161n\u00fdch dn\u00ed, aby sa pomoc dostala v\u0161ade a\u00a0n\u00e1silie nemalo svoju geografick\u00fa mapu. Po mnoh\u00fdch rozhovoroch s\u00a0odborn\u00edkmi si mysl\u00edm, \u017ee situ\u00e1cia sa zlep\u0161uje. Pr\u00edpadov s\u00edce prib\u00fada, ale klesaj\u00fa lehoty pre pomoc \u017een\u00e1m, st\u00fapaj\u00fa mo\u017enosti a\u00a0vedomosti pol\u00edcie, \u010do robi\u0165, ak sa s\u00a0nie\u010d\u00edm tak\u00fdm stretn\u00fa. My ako spolo\u010dnos\u0165 by sme mali len viac otvori\u0165 o\u010di a\u00a0vz\u00e1jomne si pom\u00e1ha\u0165. Tak\u00e1 spolo\u010dnos\u0165 nebude potrebova\u0165 to\u013eko z\u00e1sahov soci\u00e1lky \u010di policajtov.<\/p>\n

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                    1. Najmarkantnej\u0161\u00edm prejavom fyzick\u00e9ho t\u00fdrania b\u00fdva bitka. \u010co je v\u0161ak najtypickej\u0161ie pre psychick\u00e9 t\u00fdranie – ako formy dom\u00e1ceho n\u00e1silia, na ktor\u00e9 tie\u017e AVON zameriava pozornos\u0165?<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

                      Treba poveda\u0165, \u017ee to ide ruka v\u00a0ruke. N\u00e1silie nekles\u00e1, n\u00e1silie sa len niekedy na chv\u00ed\u013eo\u010dku schov\u00e1 za mil\u00fa tv\u00e1r mu\u017ea, ktor\u00fd vie hra\u0165 psychologick\u00e9 hry, aby \u017eenu mal tam, kde ju chce ma\u0165. Ve\u013ea \u017eien psychick\u00e9 t\u00fdranie podce\u0148uje, myslia si, \u017ee je be\u017en\u00e9 a\u00a0deje sa to aj in\u00fdm \u017een\u00e1m, ktor\u00e9 takpovediac ,,neposl\u00fachaj\u00fa\u201c a\u00a0\u017ee sa to nikdy nezhor\u0161\u00ed. Ako vrav\u00edm, \u010dasto sa sam\u00e9 bolestivo sklam\u00fa. Ak\u00e9ko\u013evek neopr\u00e1vnen\u00e9 \u00fatoky, ekonomick\u00e9 \u010di psychick\u00e9 t\u00fdranie a\u00a0ne\u00factiv\u00e9 zaobch\u00e1dzanie je potrebn\u00e9 rie\u0161i\u0165 okam\u017eite a s\u00a0vedom\u00edm, \u017ee sme \u013eudsk\u00e9 bytosti, ktor\u00e9 si zasl\u00fa\u017eia l\u00e1sku a\u00a0bezpe\u010die, nie bitku \u010di zneu\u017e\u00edvanie.<\/p>\n

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                      Simonetta Zalov\u00e1<\/p>\n

                      foto Avon<\/p>\n

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                      Cel\u00fd rozhovor si pre\u010d\u00edtate v zimnom dvoj\u010d\u00edsle MIAU (2021)<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

                        Ak ste ju nemali mo\u017enos\u0165 vidie\u0165 na\u017eivo v\u00a0parti\u010dke stand-up komikov zo zoskupenia Siln\u00e9 re\u010di, mo\u017eno v\u00e1s bavia jej hl\u00e1\u0161ky ako st\u00e1lej \u010dlenky Silnej zostavy, diskusnej rel\u00e1cie RTVS, popr\u00edpade patr\u00edte k\u00a0jednej z\u00a0takmer p\u00e4\u0165desiatich tis\u00edc followeriek jej instagramov\u00e9ho \u00fa\u010dtu simonacomedy. Komi\u010dka Simona Sal\u00e1tov\u00e1 m\u00e1 za sebou siln\u00fd pr\u00edbeh diev\u010da\u0165a vyrastaj\u00faceho v\u00a0rodine n\u00e1siln\u00edka, a\u00a0tak ne\u010dudo, \u017ee p\u00f4sob\u00ed […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":9528,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,104],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-9524","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-etc","category-zima-2021"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9524","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=9524"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9524\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9527,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/9524\/revisions\/9527"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9528"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=9524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=9524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.miaumagazin.sk\/home\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=9524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}